Your Path Is Your Pathology

We are mind and body. But it is not only our thoughts that affect…

The Delicate Art of Going Big

A few days ago, I found myself watching a post-match interview…

Easy Listening Tennis

Tennis is an intensely visual game. You watch your opponent…

The Problem with Porn

For centuries if not longer, sex has been fraught. It’s seen as…

These Voices in My Head

As I writer, I try to be sensitive to boundaries. This is true—but…

What Is Sacred Sexuality?

I'm a writer. It friggin' offends me when words are used in a…

The Non-Violent Writer

Non-violent writing is a theme I suspect I'll probably return…

The Twosome Delusion

I'll start with a radical statement: we are delusional, each…

Have You Fallen Out of Love?

Love: the word means different things to different people—and…

What Makes Sexy?

Woman walks into a cafe. She's wearing a retro outfit with a…